Sexual Harrassment and Rape
By M from Ardmore, OK on February 16, 2006 in Dallas Attorneys
March, 2005, I was taken advantage of by a girl that I knew. About a year prior to that, she called me and told me that she had a crush on me, and I told her that I was happily married, and that we could only be friends. I was working in Dallas, and after I finished my route, I was at my motel room when Justin, an employee at Arby's called me, and said that he and his girlfriend Shantel, also and Arby's employee, were out partying and wanted to know if they could stop by my room and hang out and drink a few beers. I have known them for a long time and became friends with them from delivering food to the restaurants where they worked. I told them to come on over. Shantel showed up alone, and said that Justin went to the store to get some beer, and that he would be right back. She offered me a Xanax bar, which I had never tried before, and I took it. I had no idea how strong it would be, and I started getting very sleepy, and told her she was going to have to leave. The next thing I remembered was waking up with her on top of me, having her way with me. I started cussing her, and threw her off of me and made her leave my room. I cried and soaked in the tub for hours after that. You can't even imagine how I felt. I am a happily married man, and I can't believe that she did this to my wife and me. I didn't file charges, or tell anyone about it, because I was embarrased and ashamed that this happened to me. I feel that she used me to get a free ride from the welfare system, and child support from me. I have e-mails that she sent to my wife stating that she used me for sex, and that she had been trying to get pregnant for over a year with her boyfriend, and that she doesn't want a man living with her. She is trying to sue me for child support, and I don't think it is fair since I never consented to having sex with her. I was out of it on that pill. How is it fair that if a man rapes a woman, he goes to prison, but if a woman rapes a man, she gets a child support check? I need to know if there is any hope for me in this situation. An attorney in Ardmore told me that if the DNA proves that I am the father, I will have to pay her . If I am the father, is there any way that I can prove her unfit as a parent, since she is a rapist, and take the baby away from her? If it is mine, I would like to see it put up for adoption to someone who would take good care of it. I don't feel I could love it like I should under the circumstances that it was conceived. I don't want to be constantly reminded of the worst night of my life. This nightmare has put me and my wife on an emotional rollercoaster. I need to know if there is any lawyer that would be willing to stand up and fight for me. This woman that raped me is crazy, and I would like to see her mentally evaluated. Is there any hope for me to be rid of this evil person? |
